seems like people have different standards so 
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1. acting rude unprovoked (name-calling, aggressive language)
2. bashing (creating threads or separate posts just to shit on a group*)
3. gaslighting (creating doubt and confusion regarding what did and didn't happen when there's current/past drama)
*shitting on a group is NOT the same as "i dislike their music"/"their music is not for me because of xyz"
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taking everything serious and turning it into a debate
also taking everything as a joke and started fanwars for fun
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namecalling, spreading rumors about users
i remember finding out how users here actually have group conversations where they do this. gross.
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did something happen?
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I think the most toxic behaviour is ganging up on users. This happens very often here. No matter who is originally at fault, the fandom of one side of the argument would tag along and pile up together on the other side. It's especially toxic when their fellow fan is the one at fault but they still come to their defence and act like a cult. This behaviour made some posters here leave, either permanently or temporarily.
Also ad hominem and never letting go of old arguments and incidents. Using things said months or even years ago to embarrass and discredit a user just because you don't like their opinion.
And finally, revenge mentality.
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There are some users here that are so vile. And they are vile over and over again and their fandom knows about it and they never call it out. Only encourage it. People like that disgust me.
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Derailing threads
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Making vile threads on anon while acting innocent on the real forum
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Making vile threads on anon while acting innocent on the real forum
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Deliberately baiting another user into a fanwar
Being rude and disrespectful and talking down to in a condescending manner
Calling out other users with hateful or racist remarks
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gaslighting & hypocrisy.
don't like openly aggresive users, but at least they aren't fake af.
There are some users here who will delibrately make shady comments & when they get called out they will play innocent & the victim. "it was just a joke, don't take akp so serious".
But when the situation gets turned around, they will act as if everyone has personally insulted their idol.
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