We have been dating a boy for two years now. It seems to be a good relationship, but once in an argument he said that I had gained weight. He also said that it does not change his attitude to me and he loves me, but it would be good to lose weight... Now we are ok, and he even says that I have lost weight. But the residue remains... I can't forgive these words, because the topic of excess weight has always been a sore point for me. I was teased at school about it. I wouldn't say I'm overweight now, I look fine, just a little tummy. But it did affect my self-esteem.