What’s your opinion on the hate Kfans are giving Chen and Chanyeol

From my perspective I see no logical reason for them to get hate, maybe for certain problematic comments Chanyeol said about skin color and Chen’s racial remarks about “Kunta Kinte lips”. But hating the fact he is a father of two children is very strange, even if he was an idol. He’s literally a grown ass man who has his own rights to father a child with a consenting woman. Nothing wrong with that at all. Do these k fans really expect idols in their 30s to be virgins that make their fans their only “love” of their lives?