Posts by lilytrbl

    exactly! I was bullied from grade 3 to 10 and this stopped 6 years ago. People really do not realize what it does to a person. It completely changes how your brain works.


    And imagine you were bullied, graduated and started new. Then your bully debuts. Maybe you don´t really notice because you are not into idols or because you want to forget. Then gradually your bully becomes more famous. You turn on the TV, they are on a variety show you used to like. You stop watching. A few days later, you turn on the TV again. A CF appears of your bully. This is triggering all your pas wounds you thought you have overcome. On the subway you see CFs of your bully, some coworkers mention their drama appearance. This is stressful af. Especially in South Korea therapy or other mental health-things are not accessible and frown upon.


    Most people do not take bullying serious, and when you are turned down a few times or teachers tell you to not talk about it, plus a a merciless bully convinces you that you are not worth the oxygen you inhale you start to believe that you deserve it and that nobody is willing or able to help you.