geez this guy's somethin else huh? i wouldn't pass up ramen even if i was pissed at someone lol
i think he has an ok reason to be upset but not so bad that we should never talk again. i miss him so much but idk how to reach out without getting my friends or even his friends involved in this petty stupid conflict.
i'm not sure how far you guys are apart geographically but i was thinking food. everybody loves food. might even mean more if you make it yourself. you probably know his favorite dish i assume. if not that then just buy him something he likes and maybe have it sent to his place if he has you blocked online
hes thrown my packages away whenever he recieves one when were fighting, but i could try sending things he likes i know he likes noodles lolol he used to make them all the time idk if he still does but it was so funny
he wont even listen to my apology :(( i know there must be something i can do
of course! do you have any suggestions? he has me blocked on everything so its hard to reach out and actually talk or "offer" anything but i for sure wanna try!
trust me, he can definitely be mad forever if he wants too. whenever we have an argument, im always the one to come back and apologize and try to fix things first. i dont see him getting over this if it doesnt involve me talking to him like actually talking andworking things out. i think its also important to add we dont live in the same area. i miss him dearly and everyone tells me to give up or wait for him to come back and everything first and i feel like the conflict is too stupid and unimportant to "give up" on a whole friendship. like seriously i do NOT do that. and i also know hes not gonna be the one to come back on his own. if hes mad, he stays mad and holds a huge grudge for as long as possible.
and even tho we fought a lot, i never found him toxic. ive been through what hes going through and i know how hard it is to break that cycle. like come on it took me 5 years to break my own lol. but in a way i kind of miss those things. i used to be like "oh i cant stand him how did i stay there when we fought so much?" but now idk ofc i dont WANT to fight but i appreciated it because it felt like our friendship was growing from it.
well if he's not ready then probably should just give him time. can't be mad forever
trust me, he can definitely be mad forever if he wants too. whenever we have an argument, im always the one to come back and apologize and try to fix things first. i dont see him getting over this if it doesnt involve me talking to him like actually talking andworking things out. i think its also important to add we dont live in the same area. i miss him dearly and everyone tells me to give up or wait for him to come back and everything first and i feel like the conflict is too stupid and unimportant to "give up" on a whole friendship. like seriously i do NOT do that. and i also know hes not gonna be the one to come back on his own. if hes mad, he stays mad and holds a huge grudge for as long as possible.
show him this and apologize i guess
I tried to apologize so many times but he just says he doesn’t care
So, idk if I should post this here but I really don’t know where to go. I’ve been spending the last few days crying abt this and it’s so embarrassing to admit but I just need a real solution and not feel like I’m completely alone.
So, back in November I got into a fight with my best friend because I asked why he was being so distant and it turned into a whole argument, him saying that I’m “back on my bs” saying he can’t trust me and that he doesn’t need me. After this I did some stuff that was bad and I’ll admit that but I wasn’t mentally ok at all at the time and this isn’t me excusing myself but me saying that I’m not like that anymore. I jumped into the friendship too soon before healing from a previous thing I was traumatized by. I loved being friends with him so much and he was so good to me. I want to fix things but he’s still so angry with me and is taking things so much out of proportion. I don’t want to give up, as he was an amazing friend and I feel like we could be able to reconcile if he just listened to me.
I’ve taken the time since our fight to recover as I should have before and learn the error of my ways and fix things within myself. I miss my friendship so much and I miss my personality. I feel so empty ever since then and I want to use my new mentality and healthiness to fix things and get back what I lost because of my selfishness. What should I do?
exo and yes i still love them
absolutely not
bigbangs comeback DELIVEREDDDDDDD
baps comeback nonexistent
historys comeback nonexistent
golden bomber (do japanese bands count?) DELIVER BOYYYYYYYYY
bts comeback delivered
&TEAMs debut AHHHHH DELIVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
what a throwback
i still remember everyone hating the cajun sauce and loving the chili or loving the cajun and hating the chili
omg and does anyone remember that girl that got hated on tiktok bc she said she wanted the chili but didnt wanna order the bts meal to get it bc it was "embarrassing"
like babes its a mcdonalds menu item how is it embarrassing its not like those places with menu item names like "ol' daddys belt" 
i hope it doesnt become their "bts fire" (aka gets performed at every concert for years and years bc its so popular) bc they obvi struggle with the higher parts.. i hope next comeback they get something better fit to them
what is your absolute fav fandom to make friends with?
aka which fandom do you find most comfortable to talk to
for me, i think most 2nd gen fans are super nice, its a shame the community is small and hard to find. i think older shawols are super nice and fun, but the ones on tiktok and twt can be a bit,,,
I think some people in another thread were blaming her for being "rude" in her texts and saying both sides were at fault.
I knew it would happen lol, i knew some folks would blame her for her "harsh" word choice.
i think its dumb the fans automatically defend her bc of what they see on camera but then usually theyre the ones to attack idols that get into similar scandals saying "believe the victim" but i dont see any hate towards chuu.. at least not enough to make a thread about
likes to read too much into things and take things to heart lol