Gender has, at this point, become indistinguishable from personality unfortunately.
I completely support transgender people. What I can't get on board with is non-binary and neo pronouns and all that stuff that became really popular during the pandemic.
If you don't have gender dysphoria, you're an ordinary male or female but also an individual with personal preferences - and that should be OK. It's OK to not have any additional problems, be they physical or mental, to worry about.