[theqoo] How women in their 30's & 40's view marriage nowadays

  • By the way, the woman is 7 years older

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    *Hyunjun who asked her about marriage*

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    *Hyunjun who prioritizes ‘stability’ in marriage.*

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    Yeonkyung: But for me, I definitely don't want those kind of marriage that only look good on the exterior


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    Yeonkyung: Rather, living alone would be much better. I'm already so happy living alone


    Men seem to be in a hurry because stability matters to them, while women don't seem to be in such a rush since they can live well on their own.


    They say more women truly enjoy the single life, and it seems to be true.


    original post: here


    1. I guess that free appliances do provide a sense of security


    2. They just need someone to do house chores and makes food for them


    3. There's nothing good that comes out of a marriage for women. It's only "stable" for themㅎㅎㅎㅎ


    4. I'm curious about the definition of a man's sense of security. What exactly is making you feel so insecure???? Isn't that actually a career issue???


    5. ㅋ.... why does the word "security" feels so... unrelatable? The woman seems smart


    6. If men want stability, then they should just go marry each other


    7. Even after marriage, women still do more housework, don't they? If that's the case, wouldn't it be easier to just live alone and only do my own stuff?


    8. Women face variables when they marry, whether positive or negative. If you want stability, you don't get married


    9. Ew


    10. Is this right? I'm perfectly stable and doing well on my own. Do I really need to get married, wearing myself out and becoming a slave? Instead of taking care of my husband, taking care of my mother-in-law, raising kids, and doing all that emotional labor, wouldn't it be better to just travel alone and enjoy my hobbies?

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