the feeling of being in love

Quote from chaeyoungsluvr

im not sure if this is love, but this is the first time ive felt so strongly about someone, i dont know, its not some silly crush either, its not just the feeling of butterflies it much more. This person makes me feel so loved and? I am not one to say corny things like "i love you" towards another person, but they, i would and could say that whole heartedly, but......theyve started ignoring me. I read our old messages. Seeing how happy they were when talking to me, constantly sending me voice messages, id listen to all of them with care, i care about them so much they have no idea. They dont like me back. They told me, I listened when they told me they dont feel the same, but i just cant, i just cant let them go, i told myself i would get over them, but it just hurts so much i cant handle it, i want them, i need them,, they make me happy. In my darkest times they were the only person there for me, and now it seems ive gotten too greedy and now theyre gone. I dont know how to handle myself without them.

love is cruel

You were the way you were for a reason. You weren't ready then and you didn't know better. Don't be so hard on yourself.

Chances are they might not reciprocate the same feelings regardless of what you did or didn't do. In that case, it just wasn't meant to be, and that's okay.

It hurts, but let the sadness sink in. Don't ignore it; that's not a healthy approach either. It's something to embrace. Let it inspire you to be a better person, friend, and family member each and every day. You'll experience many of your most meaningful moments in life that way and things will gravitate to you naturally.