do you still stan Joy if she not drop Crush in near future?
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you don't have support anyone you get weird vibes from
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Do whatever you want
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lol
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It's okay to unstan anyone for any reason. Even If you just woke up randomly and got tired of their face.
You own nothing to this people lol.
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unstan whoever you want
Alot of idols have liked his apology post
Many kcelebs won't care about this issue
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She's not him.
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OnceMidzy4ever
Changed the title of the thread from “Is ok unstan Joy if she not drop Crush in near future?” to “do you still stan Joy if she not drop Crush in near future?”. -
I dont stan her in the first place so
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I dont stan her in the first place so
Mmmm, thats convenient
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She's not him.
I believe this apply only in family. In a couple is different.
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Does stanning her means stanning crush?
Oh, ofc not. But, do you keep a relationship with a racist? This wouldnt bother you, wouldnt go against your values? And now: You will stan somebody who have a relationship with a racist?
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I believe this apply only in family. In a couple is different.
Again, she's not him.
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Oh, ofc not. But, do you keep a relationship with a racist? This wouldnt bother you, wouldnt go against your values? And now: You will stan somebody who have a relationship with a racist?
Let's say that her family are all racists.
Does that makes her a racist too?
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Let's say that her family are all racists.
Does that makes her a racist too?
i mean that’s kinda not a good argument at all lol. you can’t change and choose who your parents are but you absolutely have a choice in who your significant other is
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Let's say that her family are all racists.
Does that makes her a racist too?
You cant choose your family, but you can choose your couple.
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i dont know either of them. Just because a person is friends with someone doesnt mean they behave the same or share the same values/mindset. Why would you punish somene for something they didnt do just because u dont like one of their friends? If shes not openly supporting his behavior why does it matter? How do you know whether or not shes discussed the matter with him? You dont. There is nothing wrong with liking or supporting someone who has friends you dont support. Shes not behaving inappropriately so leave her alone. The answer is simple.
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You stan her??
Oh well, celebs are already liking his "apology post" so ...
I think what he did was disgusting, but i don't know about Joy.. she always seemed nice and kind.
unstan whoever you want
Alot of idols have liked his apology post
Many kcelebs won't care about this issue
Mmmm, im missing something? why i should care if this celebs are liking his post?
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Mmmm, im missing something? why i should care if this celebs are liking his post?
Bc those people also won't drop him??? Expecting Joy to end a relationship, but forgetting celebs will stay his friends, isn't it like the same logic?
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i dont know either of them. Just because a person is friends with someone doesnt mean they behave the same or share the same values/mindset. Why would you punish somene for something they didnt do just because u dont like one of their friends? If shes not openly supporting his behavior why does it matter? How do you know whether or not shes discussed the matter with him? You dont. There is nothing wrong with liking or supporting someone who has friends you dont support. Shes not behaving inappropriately so leave her alone. The answer is simple.
First, they are a couple. Second, do you keep a relationship if you find out he/she is racist?
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What did he do
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First, they are a couple. Second, do you keep a relationship if you find out he/she is racist?
Good for them to be a couple thats their private business. People in my family are a bit racist and they have their reason but i am not. Obviously im not disowning my family. If i date someone and they end up being racist they can keep that shit to themselves. As long as they dont do anything in public or embarrass me over it idgaf. *shrugs*
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They're strangers to me. KPop will always be about the music to me Idgaf about the person themselves. Joy is not her boyfriend.
So you dont care what values have the people you stan? They can be anything, and you dont mind?
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Bc those people also won't drop him??? Expecting Joy to end a relationship, but forgetting celebs will stay his friends, isn't it like the same logic?
Liking his post dont make him less racist.
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Good for them to be a couple thats their private business. People in my family are a bit racist and they have their reason but i am not. Obviously im not disowning my family. If i date someone and they end up being racist they can keep that shit to themselves. As long as they dont do anything in public or embarrass me over it idgaf. *shrugs*
I see, thanks for your honest answer.
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i mean that’s kinda not a good argument at all lol. you can’t change and choose who your parents are but you absolutely have a choice in who your significant other is
Well, yeah that's true
(Even tho for some people, they can cut off their family ties and make a new one, but that's another problem)
You cant choose your family, but you can choose your couple.
But what I want mean is, even if she surrounded by racists, it doesn't automatically make her a racist too.
But, to be clear... I want to ask you. Perhaps by "joy don't dumping a racist", you mean : "joy supporting a racist"?
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I see double standards and some stupid arguments in this thread. Anyways who you date does say alot about you.
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Liking his post dont make him less racist.
I know ???
What are you trying to say??
You are trying to kinda blame just Joy if she doesn't drop him, but i see a lot of celebs publicly supporting his apology post so why focus just on her when others aren't dropping him too??
Again, what he did was disgusting, but using this incident to blame her or put her in a difficult situation doesn't look right, specially when now he is receiving support from a lot of others celebs too.
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So you dont care what values have the people you stan? They can be anything, and you dont mind?
I don't even know who her boyfriend so it's not affecting me. I only stan for Joy cause I love Red Velvet. I don't care about Joy and her personal life.
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Well, yeah that's true
(Even tho for some people, they can cut off their family ties and make a new one, but that's another problem)
But what I want mean is, even if she surrounded by racists, it doesn't make her a racist too.
But, to be clear... I want to ask you. Perhaps by "joy don't dumping a racist", you mean : "joy supporting a racist"?
Not necessarily, maybe she dont care at all about racism against black people. Now, i know i cant stan a person who is so indiferent against racism. Do you?
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Mmmm, im missing something? why i should care if this celebs are liking his post?
So you just wanna single out joy instead of all the celebs who are supporting him regarding this issue?
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I don't even know who her boyfriend so it's not affecting me. I only stan for Joy cause I love Red Velvet. I don't care about Joy and her personal life.
Lol. You dont answer the question, but ok
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